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Adults 18+ only · Illinois launch

Honest intentions. Verified people. Clear boundaries.

Fuck-Buddies.com is an adults-only dating community for people who want to communicate their intentions honestly, establish boundaries clearly, and connect with verified adults. The platform does not permit prostitution, escort services, compensated dating, trafficking, coercion, or the exchange of anything of value for sexual activity.

Built for adults who say what they mean

Six commitments that shape every screen of the product.

Verified adults

Identity verification, optional criminal-history screening, and separate badges so no single checkmark blurs what was actually checked.

Consent-first profiles

Structured, non-graphic boundary and communication fields so expectations are on the table before anyone meets.

Safety Center

Date check-ins, trusted contacts, approximate location, incognito mode, and evidence-preserving reports.

Human moderation

Automated flags for solicitation, coercion, and trafficking language route to trained reviewers — never automated accusations.

Zero commercial sex

No rates, allowances, donations, escorting, or pay-per-meeting language. Detected, removed, and enforced.

Data minimization

No SSNs, reports, paystubs, or bank credentials in the app. Provider-hosted collection and reference IDs only.

Four badges, four different meanings

A single blue checkmark hides more than it shows. Each badge names exactly what was verified and when.

Identity Verified

The member completed the identity-verification process on the date shown.

Safety Screening Current

The named criminal-history screening package was completed and is within its validity period.

Income Verified

The member voluntarily verified income and chose to display a band — never documents or accounts.

Premium Member

The member has an active paid membership. This says nothing about safety or trustworthiness.

Verification disclosure
Criminal-history screening has limitations and is not a guarantee that a person is safe, truthful, or free from criminal history. Records may be incomplete, inaccurate, unavailable, delayed, expunged, sealed, or associated with another person. A verified badge means only that the specific verification process identified by the badge was completed on the date shown.

State your intention, not a price

Connection types are about honesty and compatibility. Nothing on this platform may advertise paid sexual activity.

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Connection types
One-time consensual flingRecurring casual partnerFriends with benefitsCasual datingOpen to a relationshipExploringCouple seeking another consenting adult
Inclusive by default

Members describe their own gender and orientation — including nonbinary, trans, gender-fluid, intersex, questioning, asexual-spectrum, and self-described identities — and may select multiple genders they are seeking. Nobody is forced into a straight or gay box.

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Consent is never implied

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A match, a message, a previous encounter, a relationship status, or a profile preference never constitutes consent. Consent must be voluntary, specific, informed, reversible, and continuous. Every profile can publish non-graphic boundary preferences, and every member can withdraw at any point.

Visit the Safety overview
  • Safer-sex and barrier expectations
  • Public-first-meeting preference
  • Alcohol or substance boundaries
  • Photography and recording boundaries
  • Hard boundaries and preferred exit method
  • Emergency contact enabled or disabled